10 tips to Be an Advertiser’s Favourite Client:

How clients interact with advertisers on this site, can greatly affect the outcome of their visit. This includes how the client is perceived as well as if the advertiser will want to see the client for repeat visits.

  1. Whoever you choose to spend time with, make sure that you do the proper research on the advertiser.

It is common knowledge that you can’t judge a book by it’s cover and the same holds true for the advertisers on our site. You can start by checking if the advertiser has a small blue tick next to her name or a “verified advertiser” banner on her profile picture. This indicates that the advertiser is known to us and we have met with her in person, either at our offices or by one of our photographers.

Look at the comment’s clients have left on her profile. If the comments and the way the advertiser responds to the comments are positive you know that chances, are you will have a great visit.

Have a look at the way in which the advertiser conducts herself on the forum. Our forum has a rating system to let you know if someone is a newbie or a veteran. People who have made several comments get a higher ranking and in general they are able to be “trusted” when making comments or reviews of an advertiser.

  1. Always be on time. If you are not going to be on time, let the advertiser know well in advance.

Unless you are giving notice of a time change well in advance, expect to pay for the time you missed. If your 60 minute appointment was supposed to start at 1pm and you get there at 1:15, STILL LEAVE AT 2pm. Please respect the advertisers time and schedule, and don’t linger. Even if the advertiser genuinely enjoyed the time with you, it is annoying and awkward if you overstay. If you want more time, ask and if the advertiser says yes, expect to pay for it at the rate previously discussed.

  1. Complete your “what’s on the table” discussion ahead of time.

Advertisers have a variety of abbreviations to describe what is on the menu for your appointment. Make sure that you discuss this with the advertiser when calling to make the booking. No one who sits down for dinner expecting sushi will be happy if a T-Bone steak is served. You might like it and it still tastes nice but it was not what you ordered or expected.

  1. Finances first

This must always be referred to as a gift or a donation in exchange for time. Always be discreet when handing the money over and do not negotiate after the finances have been agreed upon.

  1. Treat her like a queen

Regardless of what you have agreed beforehand, always treat the advertiser with respect. Remember that the advertiser is a real person with feelings. Just like you, the advertiser could be having a bad time in her personal life and the advertiser should never feel intimidated or overwhelmed by you.

  1. You are not a porn star, do not try and act like one.

What we see in movies, is not real life. While it is both noble and sweet, remember the advertiser is there to meet your needs. Do not hold back at the beginning because you want to last for her, this often ends in not being able to finish at all. Which nobody wants. You can take care of her after if you enjoy that, but no pressure here either.

  1. Stick to your agreed time.

Whether you need to get back to work, or just aren’t into idle chit-chat and cuddling, do your thing, thank the advertiser, and leave. I am sure that the advertiser will enjoy the extra downtime. If you have a genuine rapport or chemistry, or if you are just enjoying the company and a break from real life, then stay the whole time! The advertiser will be happy either way.

  1. Always leave a little extra.

Tip, always tip.

  1. Ask if the advertiser would like to be reviewed

If yes, keep it simple, and do not embellish and add things that did not happen. If you say the advertiser did something that the advertiser didn’t, other clients may expect that same service in the future.

  1. Hygiene

Always be clean!!! Very, very clean. If you just came from work or whatever, take a quick shower at the location. If you smoke, use a breath mint.

Finally, a few additional important points to consider,

  • Remember that sexual desire is part of human nature and nothing to be ashamed of. If you are older/have no time for dating/want to be discreet/or are socially awkward, there is no shame in seeing a beautiful advertiser and realising that your dreams/fantasies can come true. It’s just practical.
  • A good advertiser takes care of herself, practices safely, vets clients, checks references, and gets tested frequently. Our advertisers are not dirty, unethical, slutty, addicted to drugs any other stereotype that people associate with the industry. They, like any other social group, have a range of personalities, preferences and vices. Advertisers are regular people and chances are very high that you know women, (or men!), that are in the industry in one form or another. They often keep their professions very private because they can be judged harshly.
  • Respect the advertiser’s personal life. If you give her your number, the advertiser will most likely not call you, and it has nothing to do with whether the advertiser ‘really’ likes you. The advertiser keeps her two worlds always separate.
  • Always use protection!
  • If you are looking for something specific, it is out there. Domination, humiliation, every fetish you could imagine. It may not be every advertiser’s cup of tea, but if you look hard enough you will probably find it.
  • Always tip extra if you request a special outfit, roleplay, fetish work, toys, etc. If your advertiser goes above and beyond, so should you.
  • The dream client would tip well, leave early, finish fast, bring a gift, be a regular guy, be polite and respectful. That is just the real truth. Keep in mind though that that is a client that doesn’t really exist and no one expects you to be him. It’s more about you anyway, and professional advertiser love to feel like they did a great job and left the guy with a smile and a lasting memory! Many genuinely like most of their clients and enjoy the job wholeheartedly. Like any group of client service providers, advertisers have favourites, people they don’t care for, and people they will refuse to see ever again.
  • Independent advertisers can be fun too! Make sure they have great reviews and that they vet clients properly before seeing them, (you may feel uncomfortable giving out identifying information, but it is in everyone’s best interest!).
  • Venue vs. Independent: Agencies are great if you want to try a variety of advertisers. Repeat clients are often given special treatment and more consideration. Once you trust an agency, it takes a lot of the guesswork and fear out of the equation. A good venue can give you recommendations based on who you have enjoyed in the past.

When you first meet your advertiser, please take some time to talk to them before moving onto more intimate activities. When you first meet maybe give your advertiser a hug and kiss and ask them to make themselves more comfortable

Abbreviations for Sex Work Services

Abbreviations or acronyms are used to shortcut the description of different advertiser services. There are many variations, but the following are some common ones, let us know in the comments below if you know of any more…….

  • 69: Sex position in which the sexual partners lay head to toe and mutually perform oral sex on each other.
  • A-level: Anal sex (also known as Greek)
  • ATM: Ass to mouth, anal sex immediately followed by oral
  • AR: Anal rimming refers to licking of the anal area
  • BBS: Bare back sex, vaginal or anal sex without a condom
  • BBBJ: Bare back blowjob, oral sex without a condom
  • BBBJTC: Bare back blowjob to completion
  • BBW: Big, beautiful woman, refers to women who are voluptuous or curvaceous
  • B & D: Bondage and discipline
  • BDSM: Bondage, discipline, domination, submission, sadism, masochism, describes a wide range of activities – always get more information
  • Bondage: Refers to activities involving tying up or restraining of one partner
  • BJ: Blowjob, oral sex on a penis; fellatio
  • BJTC: Blowjob to completion, giving oral sex until the client cums; with or without a condom
  • BLS: Ball licking and sucking
  • BS: Body slide. A service provider slides their naked body over the client’s, often with the aid of oil or gel
  • CBJ: Covered blowjob refers to oral sex with a condom
  • CBT: Cock and ball torture, a BDSM sexual activity that involves torture or inflicting pain on genitals
  • CD: Cross dressing, may involve client or service provider dressing as a different gender during a booking, could also include service provider “teaching” client how to play a particular gender role
  • CIM: Cum in mouth, refers to cumming in a service provider’s mouth without a condom
  • CIMWS: Cum in mouth with swallowing
  • COF / COB: Cum on face/cum on breasts/cum on body; pulling the penis out of someone’s mouth/vagina/arse and cumming over chest, face, back, etc
  • DATY: Dining at the ‘Y’, oral sex on a vulva (the outer part of the vagina); cunnilingus
  • DATO: See ‘rimming’
  • DP: Double penetration, either penetrating two orifices at once which may include two people, or penetration of one orifice with two things. These acts could include the mouth, vagina and/or anus
  • DDP: Double digit penetration, one finger in vagina, the other in anus
  • DFK: Deep French kissing, passionate kissing with tongues
  • DT: Deep throat, taking the entire length of a penis in one’s mouth during oral sex
  • Facial: Ejaculating on a face
  • FE: Female ejaculation, also known as squirting or g-spot ejaculation. The ejaculation of fluid from the urethra.
  • Filming: Filming or recording of a sexual act
  • Fire and ice: Refers to applying hot and cold sensations, either directly to the genitals or via the mouth during oral sex. For example, switching between hot and cold sensations such as hot tea and an ice cube. This can be part of a CBT experience.
  • Fisting: Penetration of a whole hand inside the vagina or anus
  • FK: French kissing
  • Foot fetish: A sexual desire and gratification focused on feet or shoes, may involve a foot job or kissing and licking of toes
  • Foot job: Like a hand job but performed with feet, usually with oil or lube stroking a penis between the arches of two feet either as foreplay or until completion
  • French: Oral sex
  • FS: Full service, usually just means ‘intercourse’, but some clients or establishments might be referring to a ‘complete’ service, including massage, oral and sex
  • Gagging: Gagging or choking on an erect penis or sometimes fingers
  • GFE: Girlfriend experience, acting like a girlfriend; sensual, friendly, cuddly. May include services such as sex, French kissing, mutual oral sex. Inclusions of the service may vary between providers.
  • Greek: Anal sex
  • GS: Golden shower, urinating on body or in mouth
  • Happy ending: Hand job after massage
  • HJ: Hand Job, hand relief; using your hand to masturbate the client
  • Italian: Rubbing penis between buttocks
  • LK: Light kissing
  • MILF: Mother I’d like to fuck. Describes a sexually attractive woman, usually several years older than the person using the term
  • MFF: Male Female Female, threesome involving one male and two females
  • MMF: Male Male Female, threesome involving two males and one female
  • Mutual French: Both parties give and reciprocate oral sex. If done at the same time is called ‘69’
  • Mutual Natural French: Both parties give and receive unprotected oral sex
  • MSOG: Multiple shots on goal refers to a client orgasming multiple times within a booking
  • NSA: No strings attached, no serious relationships, just a hook-up
  • OWO: Oral without, a blow job without a condom
  • Pegging: Using a strap on dildo to have anal sex with a partner
  • PSE: Porn star experience, a sexual encounter that is like what you would see in a mainstream pornographic film. Usually involves a range of sexual positions, louder moaning, dirty talk, deep throating/gagging and light spanking. The inclusions of a PSE vary between service providers.
  • R&T: Rub and tug, massage with hand relief
  • Rimming: Licking around the anus
  • Russian: Rubbing the penis between breasts, sometimes until climax (also known as Spanish)
  • Snowballing: The act of transferring semen or cum from one person’s mouth to another
  • Spanish: Rubbing the penis between breasts, sometimes until climax (also known as Russian)
  • Squirting: Also known as female ejaculation or g-spot ejaculation. The ejaculation of fluid from the urethra.
  • Strap on: A dildo designed to be worn, usually with a harness, to penetrate a sexual partner
  • Strip tease: An erotic dance where the service provider undresses for the client in a teasing fashion
  • Tea bagging: Placing balls in the mouth or on the face of a partner
  • Toy show: A masturbation show using sex toys including vibrators
  • Tromboning: An act where the service provider kneels behind the client and licks their anus while masturbating their erect penis
  • TTM: Testicular tongue massage

Water sports: See golden shower, but also can involve many sexual activities that involve urine

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